Why I don’t want to raise a “nice” girl

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I grew up being a nice girl. I was always cooperative, respectful, and agreeable. I got good grades, I was always team lead doing the extra work in team projects, and followed instructions perfectly.

However, it’s also hurt me over the years. I was too loyal, staying in a friendship, relationship, or workplace too long because I was afraid of rocking the boat. I put others before myself and was…